Latest update August 15th, 2026 10:49 AM
Latest News
- Wales project to startup by year end but no 50% promised reduction in light bills until plant reaches full capacity – PM
- Blackouts will continue until all power lines, substations fixed – Indar
- Two slicks appear in Gulf as huge oil spill off Oman threatens disaster
- Newly built $208M school to get another $384M to build dorms
- CCJ President Anderson breaks silence on misconduct allegations
Victim blaming is shifting responsibility away from the killers
DEAR EDITOR,
The media has a critical role to play in changing how domestic violence and other forms of gender-based violence are addressed in Guyana.
The murders over the weekend have generated stories, which follow a genre of ‘why didn’t she do something about the abuse?”
Victim blaming is very easy to do and is always instinctive. Victim blaming is trying to find out from friends and relatives…what did she tell you…? Why didn’t she leave?
Victim blaming is shifting responsibility away from the killers, the community of the killers and the system, which nurtures killers of family members, to those who for many reasons, are trapped in abusive relationships.
The web of abuse includes not only personal circumstances but family, community, cultural and systemic issues which trap many people.
No survivor of domestic violence owes anyone any explanation for entrapment.
The media have not asked the family, friends, colleagues of the men who killed the women they were supposed to love about the environment, which nurtured the killers.
There are no stories about whether the abusers and their friends have spoken about relationships and maintaining equality and dealing with infidelity.
There are no stories, which question the police about the consequences of not doing the intense training required to deal with domestic violence.
The Army in releasing its statement to distance itself from the recent perpetrator did not say what mechanisms it has in place to help other abusers in its ranks.
The media could ask though, and reinforce for the public, that the responsibility for abuse is squarely on the abuser and those who nurture the abusive behaviour.
No one has asked the Army if they knew they had such an individual in their midst, and what mechanisms they intend to put in place to heal those who might have similar instincts.
Vidyaratha Kissoon
Share this:
Discover more from Kaieteur News
Subscribe to get the latest posts sent to your email.
Similar Articles
Blunt of the day
Sports
Features/Columnists
Sir. Ronald Sanders
The GHK Lall Column
Weekend Cartoon
